The Party Life Volume 8

Before you read this newsletter, I’d like to take a moment a silence for our friend that past away, Myspace: a place for friends.

Now back to our regularly scheduled program.

LIFE:
It is important to make a difference in someone’s life. We often think that we need to be a celebrity, donate tons of money, or join a cause to make a difference. Unfortunately, not everyone has the time to allocate to a cause. What you do have is a mobile phone and your immediate circle. A simple text or phone call asking someone about their well being could make their day, and in some cases, save their life. Always take the time to show someone you care.

SPORTS:
After being sentenced for 30 days in jail for pleading guilty to DUI manslaughter, DONTE STALLWORTH was suspended indefinitely without pay by the NFL.

ANDY PETTITTE struck out 7 as the New York Yankees defeated the Florida Marlins 5-1 last night.

In soccer news, Brazil annihilated the Americans 3-0. Hopefully, the U.S. will make improvements before the 2010 World Cup.

In an upset, Egypt defeated World Champs Italy 1-0 during the Confederations cup.

SEX:
Threesomes. Been there done that. Oral sex. So passé. Sex tape. Well, you are the neighborhood RAY J and KIM KARDASHIAN. Finding a new sexual adventure could be just about an inch away. One of the most taboo and feared sexual acts, anal sex, could prove to be one of the more exciting and naughty acts you have ever performed. It has to be done correctly of course.

First things first, you have to keep in mind why you want to do it and why she would want to do it also. However, you also have to keep in mind why you both might not want to do it. Reasons you might have for wanting to do it is curiosity, a new sensation, or it’s that time of the month for her. She might want to do it because, well, it makes her feel like a bad girl and if she’s done it before, it feels good to her. As for reasons that you BOTH might not do it, there’s the inexperience factor and the fear of things getting messy. Like any sexual act, you need to be prepared both mentally and physically. You have got to want to do it. When you’re both ready, here’s what you need to do to make it pleasurable.

Contrary to what you may see in porn anal sex is a delicate act. Begin your adventure, by laying your girl on her stomach. Massage her body using sensual oils and if you are on a budget, baby oil. Do not over do it or you may end up having a sexual blooper. The massage will both arouse and relax her. During your massage, rub her “booty” and give it an occasional squeeze. Using your index or middle finger, begin to penetrate her hole slowly. Be attentive to her reactions. Make sure her moans are of pleasurable and not hurtful pain. For an added sensation, use anal beads on her. After teasing her for a few minutes, grab a condom and put it on. STD’s can be transmitted through anal. Be sure that your condom is lubricated. Also use lubricant on and around her hole. Enter her slowly. Ask her to be vocal during the process so that she can let you know how deep and at what rhythm it feels best for her. Enjoy.

PRECAUTIONS. To avoid a mess, it’s best to shower before experiencing anal sex. She should also use an anal douche.

TRENDS/CURRENT EVENTS:
This past week the digital TV transition went into effect. It was a rude awakening for those who didn’t have cable or satellite and were still using analog. You can purchase a Digital TV converter at any electronics store for around $60. You can also upgrade t cable or satellite.

MUSIC:
In an interview with ANGIE MARTINEZ, the music industry’s hottest free agent, DRAKE, says that he will announce which label he will sign to as early as next week. A Universal is highly likely but we will have to wait and see. He is also expected to be on the America’s Most Wanted Tour with LIL WAYNE, YOUNG JEEZY, & SOULJA BOY.

Speaking of DRAKE, it is reported that he may drop a single this summer featuring MARY J BLIGE. It’s also believed that he is featured on a track with JAY-Z for the September 11th release of the BLUEPRINT 3. We will have to wait and see.

The BLACK EYED PEAS have debuted at #1 on The Billboard 200. With platinum status attached to it, EMINEM “Relapse” is #3. MOS DEF and PLEASURE P’s latest efforts are #9 and #10 respectively.

Upcoming Tours
Monday, June 29 BEYONCE at BankAtlantic Center
Friday, July 3 BERES HAMMOND & FRIENDS at James L Knight Center
Thursday, July 9 JOHN LEGEND at Hard Rock Live
Friday, July 31 MAXWELL at American Airlines Arena

THE PARTIES:
Saturday, June 20
Gentleman Jack Rare Tennessee Whiskey presents
"ROOM SERVICE: DJ IRIE & FRIENDS"
Music by DJ Affect & DJ Zion
Ladies in FREE with RSVP before 12:30am
Doors open 11pm : Trendy Dress Code Req’d
@ B.E.D. Miami. 929 Washington Ave. South Beach

Sunday, June 21
Michael Gardner & Louis Oliver
"LIV: NAS"
Music by DJ Affect. DJ Don P
Celebrating the birthday of Abebe Lewis
Complimentary Admission for Ladies w/RSVP
Doors open at 11pm : Proper Attire Req’d
Early Arrival and/or Bottle Service Highly Suggested
@ LIV. 4441 Collins Ave. Fontainebleau Miami Beach

Tuesday, June 23
Headliner Market Group & J Phorbes PR presents
"23 WAYS TO MAKE A MOVIE"
Birthday Celebration for JESSYKA PHORBES
Music By Jess Bangin. Joe Matarano. DJ Top Feelin
Featuring the Lavish Cocktail Hour 8pm – 10pm
Red Carpet & R&B Dinner Party 8pm - 11pm
23 Ways To Party 11pm - 5am
RSVP for dinner/vip/complimentary admission
Doors open at 8pm : Proper Attire Req’d
@ Grass. 28 NE 40 ST. Miami Design District

Thursday, June 25
American Black Film Festival Weekend
Headliner Market Group. Phil The Mayor. Def Jam Records. Desert Storm presents
"LOSO'S WAY: Movie Release Party"
Hosted By FABOLOUS
Music By Stevie J
Doors open 11pm : Trendy Dress Code Req’d
@ B.E.D. Miami. 929 Washington Ave. South Beach

Friday, June 26
American Black Film Festival Weekend
Headliner Market Group. Phil The Mayor. Str8 Drop Records. Ted Lucas & Slip-N-Slide Records presents
"JAGGED EDGE PERFORMING LIVE"
The Official Signing Party
Special Guest Actress/R&B Singer DREW SIDORA (The Game)
Birthday Celebration for NBA Superstar RASUAL BUTLER
Music By Stevie J
@ Cameo 1445 Washington Ave. South Beach

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